“THE CROSS AND CHRISTIAN MISSION

1 Corinthians 9

1 Am I not free? Am I not an apostle? Have I not seen Jesus our Lord? Are not you my workmanship in the Lord?

2 If to others I am not an apostle, at least I am to you, for you are the seal of my apostleship in the Lord.

3 This is my defense to those who would examine me.

4 Do we not have the right to eat and drink?

5 Do we not have the right to take along a believing wife, as do the other apostles and the brothers of the Lord and Cephas?

6 Or is it only Barnabas and I who have no right to refrain from working for a living?

7 Who serves as a soldier at his own expense? Who plants a vineyard without eating any of its fruit? Or who tends a flock without getting some of the milk?

8 Do I say these things on human authority? Does not the Law say the same?

9 For it is written in the Law of Moses, "You shall not muzzle an ox when it treads out the grain." Is it for oxen that God is concerned?

10 Does he not certainly speak for our sake? It was written for our sake, because the plowman should plow in hope and the thresher thresh in hope of sharing in the crop.

11 If we have sown spiritual things among you, is it too much if we reap material things from you?

12 If others share this rightful claim on you, do not we even more? Nevertheless, we have not made use of this right, but we endure anything rather than put an obstacle in the way of the gospel of Christ. 

13 Do you not know that those who are employed in the temple service get their food from the temple, and those who serve at the altar share in the sacrificial offerings?

14 In the same way, the Lord commanded that those who proclaim the gospel should get their living by the gospel.

15 But I have made no use of any of these rights, nor am I writing these things to secure any such provision. For I would rather die than have anyone deprive me of my ground for boasting.

16 For if I preach the gospel, that gives me no ground for boasting. For necessity is laid upon me. Woe to me if I do not preach the gospel!

17 For if I do this of my own will, I have a reward, but if not of my own will, I am still entrusted with a stewardship.

18 What then is my reward? That in my preaching I may present the gospel free of charge, so as not to make full use of my right in the gospel.

19 For though I am free from all, I have made myself a servant to all, that I might win more of them.

20 To the Jews I became as a Jew, in order to win Jews. To those under the law I became as one under the law (though not being myself under the law) that I might win those under the law.

21 To those outside the law I became as one outside the law (not being outside the law of God but under the law of Christ) that I might win those outside the law.

22 To the weak I became weak, that I might win the weak. I have become all things to all people, that by all means I might save some.

23 I do it all for the sake of the gospel, that I may share with them in its blessings.

24 Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize? So run that you may obtain it.

25 Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable.

26 So I do not run aimlessly; I do not box as one beating the air.

27 But I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified.

Are you a follower of Jesus?

If you are a follower of Jesus, you have been saved for a purpose: the enjoyment of God in the spread of the gospel from where you live to the ends of the earth.

Let’s relinquish our rights for the sake of the gospel. 

See the example of Paul...

He had a right to financial support from the church at Corinth. 

Common Practice

Biblical Precedent t Universal Pattern t Jewish Custom

Christ’s Command

He surrendered this right for the sake of the gospel in Corinth. 

Hear the exhortation to you...

You have rights in Birmingham and the world around you...

To life, friends, marriage, family, safety, security, health, and happiness.

To eat, drink, watch, wear, read, study, listen to, and say whatever you want. 

To organize your schedule, spend your time, choose your career, make your

money, use your money, take your vacation, and plan your retirement.

To do what you want to do, go where you want to go, and live how you

want to live.

The cross compels you to surrender your rights for the sake of the gospel in

Birmingham and the world around you.

Let’s rearrange our lives for the spread of the gospel.

We are free to be slaves of God.

We are obligated to obey.

God’s gracious conversion of us creates a gospel compulsion in us.

We are free to be slaves of others.

We willingly commit our lives, our families, and our church to this mission...

In our culture.

Across other cultures.

We wisely contextualize the gospel in this mission.

We remove all obstacles to the gospel...

But we never remove the offense of the gospel.

We lay aside all of our comforts...

But we never lay aside any of Christ’s commands. 

Let’s run this race together for the glory of our God.

The requirements in this race... 

Sacrificial self-denial.

Stringent self-discipline.

Single-minded devotion.

The rewards of this race...

Others will experience the eternal joy of salvation. 

We will fulfill the earthly purpose of salvation.

If you are not a follower of Jesus, be saved today for a purpose: the enjoyment of God in the spread of the gospel from where you live to the ends of the earth.

Thanks pastor David!

THE CROSS AND CHRISTIAN LIBERTY

1 Corinthians 8 
1 Now concerning food offered to idols: we know that "all of us possess knowledge." This "knowledge"puffs up, but love builds up.
2 If anyone imagines that he knows something, he does not yet know as he ought to know.
3 But if anyone loves God, he is known by God.
4 Therefore, as to the eating of food offered to idols, we know that "an idol has no real existence," and that "there is no God but one."
5 For although there may be so-called gods in heaven or on earth--as indeed there are many "gods" and many "lords"--
6 yet for us there is one God, the Father, from whom are all things and for whom we exist, and one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom are all things and through whom we exist.
7 However, not all possess this knowledge. But some, through former association with idols, eat food as really offered to an idol, and their conscience, being weak, is defiled.
8 Food will not commend us to God. We are no worse off if we do not eat, and no better off if we do.
9 But take care that this right of yours does not somehow become a stumbling block to the weak.
10 For if anyone sees you who have knowledge eating in an idol's temple, will he not be encouraged, if his conscience is weak, to eat food offered to idols?
11 And so by your knowledge this weak person is destroyed, the brother for whom Christ died.
12 Thus, sinning against your brothers and wounding their conscience when it is weak, you sin against Christ.
13 Therefore, if food makes my brother stumble, I will never eat meat, lest I make my brother stumble.

1 Corinthians 10
1 For I want you to know, brothers, that our fathers were all under the cloud, and all passed through the sea,
2 and all were baptized into Moses in the cloud and in the sea,
3 and all ate the same spiritual food,
4 and all drank the same spiritual drink. For they drank from the spiritual Rock that followed them, and the Rock was Christ.
5 Nevertheless, with most of them God was not pleased, for they were overthrown in the wilderness.
6 Now these things took place as examples for us, that we might not desire evil as they did.
7 Do not be idolaters as some of them were; as it is written, "The people sat down to eat and drink and rose up to play."
8 We must not indulge in sexual immorality as some of them did, and twenty-three thousand fell in a single day.
9 We must not put Christ to the test, as some of them did and were destroyed by serpents,
10 nor grumble, as some of them did and were destroyed by the Destroyer.
11 Now these things happened to them as an example, but they were written down for our instruction, on whom the end of the ages has come.
12 Therefore let anyone who thinks that he stands take heed lest he fall.
13 No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.
14 Therefore, my beloved, flee from idolatry.
15 I speak as to sensible people; judge for yourselves what I say.
16 The cup of blessing that we bless, is it not a participation in the blood of Christ? The bread that we break, is it not a participation in the body of Christ?
17 Because there is one bread, we who are many are one body, for we all partake of the one bread.
18 Consider the people of Israel:are not those who eat the sacrifices participants in the altar?
19 What do I imply then? That food offered to idols is anything, or that an idol is anything?
20 No, I imply that what pagans sacrifice they offer to demons and not to God. I do not want you to be participants with demons.
21 You cannot drink the cup of the Lord and the cup of demons. You cannot partake of the table of the Lord and the table of demons.
22 Shall we provoke the Lord to jealousy? Are we stronger than he?
Do All to the Glory of God
23"All things are lawful," but not all things are helpful. "All things are lawful," but not all things build up.
24 Let no one seek his own good, but the good of his neighbor.
25 Eat whatever is sold in the meat market without raising any question on the ground of conscience.
26 For "the earth is the Lord's, and the fullness thereof."
27 If one of the unbelievers invites you to dinner and you are disposed to go, eat whatever is set before you without raising any question on the ground of conscience.
28 But if someone says to you, "This has been offered in sacrifice," then do not eat it, for the sake of the one who informed you, and for the sake of conscience--
29 I do not mean your conscience, but his. For why should my liberty be determined by someone else's conscience?
30 If I partake with thankfulness, why am I denounced because of that for which I give thanks?
31 So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.
32 Give no offense to Jews or to Greeks or to the church of God,
33 just as I try to please everyone in everything I do, not seeking my own advantage, but that of many, that they may be saved.


Conviction Friction, Then and Now
This passage separates believers into two groups, which means we instinctively start to think
of which group we might be in. (1 Corinthians 8:7, 9-13; 10:24, 25)
Paul’s intent—more importantly, God’s intention in this passage—isn't to
weaponize either of these groups against the other.
The controversial practice that’s being discussed in Chapters 8 and 10 is what to do about
food offered to idols. May they eat it? If so, does it matter where they eat it?

What Corinth Knew
Food is food. Rock is rock. God is one. (8:1, 4-6)

What Corinth Missed
l m Knowledge isn't the goal of Christian faith.
Love is. (cf. 1 Corinthians 8:2, 13:2; 1 Timothy 1:5;
2 Peter 1:5-7)
If you love God, it’s because, before you loved God,
you were known by God. (1 Corinthians 8:3; cf. Galatians 4:9)
One of the great effects of daily reflection on the gospel is that it
blows up our spiritual superiority complexes. (1 Corinthians 4:7;
cf. 1 Corinthians 1:27, 29)
Knowledge without love kills. (1 Corinthians 8:1, 7-13)
The Corinthians had one agenda for the “weak” brothers: teach them the way
of knowledge. (1 Corinthians 8:1, 4-6)
Make yourself a slave of the law of love and know true
freedom. (1 Corinthians 8:13, 9; 10:23-24, 32-33)
Idols may be nothing. But idolatry is demonic.
(1 Corinthians 10:1-22)
Paul draws a connection between outward signs of God’s saving power in
the Old Testament (Red Sea, manna, water from a rock) and
outward signs of His saving power in the New Testament
(baptism, Lord’s Supper).
What does this have to do with Chapter 8’s eating of idol food in the idol temples?
(1 Corinthians 10:14-22)
Demons get pleasure from the worship that takes place in
pagan temples. (1 Corinthians 10:20)
Outside of its idolatrous context, idol food becomes
simply food and belongs to the one God. (1 Corinthians 10:25;
Romans 14:14)

So, How Do We Apply This?
1. Let’s prayerfully, wisely, and humbly shepherd those who have converted to Christianity
from formal pagan backgrounds to break with the idolatrous practices they previously
engaged in.
2. Let’s take heed lest we ourselves fall into informal idolatry, which can take a hundred
forms in our lives.
3. Let’s walk in love with fellow believers, seeking to serve, encourage, and strengthen
them.
4. Let’s actively look to Christ and trust in His finished work on our behalf.
5. Let’s break the ties that can form between our hearts and false gods/saviors.
6. Let’s daily depend on the Holy Spirit’s power to sanctify us.

Thanks Matt!!

THE CROSS AND CHRISTIAN SINGLENESS

1 Corinthians 7:25-35
25 Now concerning the betrothed,I have no command from the Lord, but I give my judgment as one who by the Lord's mercy is trustworthy.
26 I think that in view of the present distress it is good for a person to remain as he is.
27 Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be free. Are you free from a wife? Do not seek a wife.
28 But if you do marry, you have not sinned, and if a betrothed woman marries, she has not sinned. Yet those who marry will have worldly troubles, and I would spare you that.
29 This is what I mean, brothers: the appointed time has grown very short. From now on, let those who have wives live as though they had none,
30 and those who mourn as though they were not mourning, and those who rejoice as though they were not rejoicing, and those who buy as though they had no goods,
31 and those who deal with the world as though they had no dealings with it. For the present form of this world is passing away.
32 I want you to be free from anxieties. The unmarried man is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord.
33 But the married man is anxious about worldly things, how to please his wife,
34 and his interests are divided. And the unmarried or betrothed woman is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to be holy in body and spirit. But the married woman is anxious about worldly things, how to please her husband.
35 I say this for your own benefit, not to lay any restraint upon you, but to promote good order and to secure your undivided devotion to the Lord.


Admonishments to Single Christians…
If you and your body are compelled, consider marriage one of
your goals.
If you and your body are content, consider singleness
your status quo.

Advantages of Single Living…
You can be completely assured of Jesus’ favor.
He says singleness is “good.”
(1 Corinthians 7:1, 8, 26)
He says singleness is a “gift” from God.
(1 Corinthians 7:7)
He says some people “do even better” to remain single.
(1 Corinthians 7:38)
He says some people are “happier” if they
remain single.
(1 Corinthians 7:40)

You can be better prepared for Jesus’ coming.
(1 Corinthians 7:26-31; cf. Matthew 6:19-20; 24:3-51;
Luke 12:32-33; 20:34-35; Romans 13:11-14; 2 Corinthians 4:16-18; 5:1;
Colossians 3:1-3; 2 Timothy 2:4; Hebrews 10:34; 1 John 2:15-17)
You have fewer family responsibilities.
You have fewer emotional connections.
You have fewer earthly possessions.
You have fewer worldly attachments.
You can be totally given to Jesus’ service.
(1 Corinthians 7:32-35; cf. Matthew 12:46-50)
Your attention and devotion are attractive.
Your attention and devotion are undivided.

Thanks pastor Jim!

THE CROSS AND CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE

1 Corinthians 7:1-24
1 Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: "It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman."
2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.
3 The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband.
4 For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.
5 Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
6 Now as a concession, not a command, I say this.
7 I wish that all were as I myself am. But each has his own gift from God, one of one kind and one of another.
8 To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single as I am.
9 But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
10 To the married I give this charge (not I, but the Lord): the wife should not separate from her husband
11 (but if she does, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband), and the husband should not divorce his wife.
12 To the rest I say (I, not the Lord) that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he should not divorce her.
13 If any woman has a husband who is an unbeliever, and he consents to live with her, she should not divorce him.
14 For the unbelieving husband is made holy because of his wife, and the unbelieving wife is made holy because of her husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy.
15 But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace.
16 For how do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?
Live as You Are Called
17 Only let each person lead the life that the Lord has assigned to him, and to which God has called him. This is my rule in all the churches.
18 Was anyone at the time of his call already circumcised? Let him not seek to remove the marks of circumcision. Was anyone at the time of his call uncircumcised? Let him not seek circumcision.
19 For neither circumcision counts for anything nor uncircumcision, but keeping the commandments of God.
20 Each one should remain in the condition in which he was called.
21 Were you a slave when called? Do not be concerned about it. (But if you can gain your freedom, avail yourself of the opportunity.)
22 For he who was called in the Lord as a slave is a freedman of the Lord. Likewise he who was free when called is a slave of Christ.
23 You were bought with a price; do not become slaves of men.
24 So, brothers,in whatever condition each was called, there let him remain with God.

The Principle of Status Quo

The gospel always makes radical change in your moral
and spiritual life, but it doesn't always make radical change
in your circumstances.

Consider sanctifying your present situation before you
consider changing it.

General rule: Stay in the situation you were in when you
were saved. (1 Corinthians 7:17, 20, 24)
Religious system
Social standing
Income stream
Job situation
Marital status

God’s character: God is sovereign and faithful in
your current situation. (1 Corinthians 7:17, 24)

Gospel values: Remember grace, pursue holiness,
and reject entitlement. (1 Corinthians 7:19, 22-23)

The Application to Marital Status

If you’re a Christian single...
…Assume your singleness is God’s will as long as your body
is content. (1 Corinthians 7:8-9, 36-40)

If you’re a Christian married to another Christian…
…Assume your marriage is God’s will as long as your spouse
is alive. (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, 39-40)

If you’re a Christian married to a non-Christian…
…Assume your marriage is God’s will as long as your spouse
is content. (1 Corinthians 7:12-16)
Thanks pastor Jim!

THE CROSS AND CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE(PART 1)

1 Corinthians 7:1-24
1 Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: "It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman."
2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.
3 The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband.
4 For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.
5 Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
6 Now as a concession, not a command, I say this.
7 I wish that all were as I myself am. But each has his own gift from God, one of one kind and one of another.
8 To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single as I am.
9 But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
10 To the married I give this charge (not I, but the Lord): the wife should not separate from her husband
11 (but if she does, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband), and the husband should not divorce his wife.
12 To the rest I say (I, not the Lord) that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he should not divorce her.
13 If any woman has a husband who is an unbeliever, and he consents to live with her, she should not divorce him.
14 For the unbelieving husband is made holy because of his wife, and the unbelieving wife is made holy because of her husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy.
15 But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace.
16 For how do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?
Live as You Are Called
17 Only let each person lead the life that the Lord has assigned to him, and to which God has called him. This is my rule in all the churches.
18 Was anyone at the time of his call already circumcised? Let him not seek to remove the marks of circumcision. Was anyone at the time of his call uncircumcised? Let him not seek circumcision.
19 For neither circumcision counts for anything nor uncircumcision, but keeping the commandments of God.
20 Each one should remain in the condition in which he was called.
21 Were you a slave when called? Do not be concerned about it. (But if you can gain your freedom, avail yourself of the opportunity.)
22 For he who was called in the Lord as a slave is a freedman of the Lord. Likewise he who was free when called is a slave of Christ.
23 You were bought with a price; do not become slaves of men.
24 So, brothers,in whatever condition each was called, there let him remain with God.


Good questions about sexual temptation…

Should I get married and risk the temptation
of adultery?
Should I stay single and risk the temptation
of fornication?
Should I continue to have sexual relations with
my spouse?
Should I continue in a marriage relationship that isn't ideal?

Biblical answers regarding marriage…

Monogamous, heterosexual marriage is a safeguard against
sexual immorality. (1 Corinthians 7:2, 9)
Get married for proclamation. (cf. Ephesians 5:22-32)
Get married for procreation. (cf. Genesis 1:28)
Get married for partnership. (cf. Genesis 2:18;
Ephesians 5:25-27; 1 Peter 3:7)
Get married for pleasure. (cf. Song of Solomon;
Proverbs 5:15-19; Hebrews 13:5)
Get married for purity. (1 Corinthians 7:2, 9)
The delightful duty of sex within monogamous,
heterosexual marriage is a safeguard against sexual immorality.
(1 Corinthians 7:3-5)
Pay your debt.
Pay your debt gladly.
Pay your debt spiritually.
Pay your debt frequently.
Pay your debt passionately.
The delightful duty of sex within monogamous, heterosexual marriage
is a safeguard against sexual immorality for those to whom it has been
given. (1 Corinthians 7:6-8)
Explore God’s grace in your life seriously.
Express thanksgiving to God frequently.

Thanks pastor Jim!

“THE CROSS AND CHRISTIAN SEXUALITY (PART 2)”

Thanks Pastor David!

1 Corinthians 6:12-20
12"All things are lawful for me," but not all things are helpful. "All things are lawful for me," but I will not be enslaved by anything.
13"Food is meant for the stomach and the stomach for food"--and God will destroy both one and the other. The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body.
14 And God raised the Lord and will also raise us up by his power.
15 Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ and make them members of a prostitute? Never!
16 Or do you not know that he who is joined to a prostitute becomes one body with her? For, as it is written, "The two will become one flesh."
17 But he who is joined to the Lord becomes one spirit with him.
18 Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.
19 Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own,
20 for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.


The central exhortation: Flee sexual immorality. (6:18)
The biblical clarification: Flee sexual activity outside of marriage
between a man and a woman.

Supreme Court Reaction…
It is good to be grieved…about the degradation (and supposed redefinition)
of marriage. (Gen. 2:24; Eph. 5:22-33)
It is right to be concerned…about religious liberty in our country.
(Mat. 22:21; Acts 4:18-20; Rom. 13:1-7)
It is imperative to be loving…toward our gay and lesbian friends and
neighbors. (Gen. 1:26-28; Mat. 22:37-39; 2 Pet. 3:9)
It is wise to be confident…in the resiliency of marriage, in the opportunity for
the gospel, and in the sovereignty of our God. (Mat. 19:4-6; Eph. 5:22-33; Rev. 19:1-10)

Clear Sexual Prohibitions…
No sex outside of marriage. (Exodus 20:14; Lev. 20:10; Prov. 6:28-32;
Mat. 19:17-18; Rom. 13:9; Heb. 13:4)
No sexual worship. (Deut. 23:17; Ex. 32:2-6; 1 Cor. 10:8)
No sexual prostitution (Lev. 19:29; Deut. 23:18; Prov. 6:25-26) or
violence. (Ez. 45:9; 1 Cor. 13:4-5; Eph. 5:25)
No homosexual activity. (Lev. 18:22; Rom. 1:26)
No sex with animals (Lev. 18:23-24; 20:15-16), relatives (Lev. 18:6; 1 Cor. 5:1-2),
or children. (Mat. 18:5-6)
No sexual lust… having wrong sexual desires for others.
(Mat. 5:28; Ex. 20:14-17; 2 Pet. 2:14)
No sexual immodesty… provoking wrong sexual desires in others.
(Rom. 14:21; 1 Tim. 2:9-10)
No sexual allurement (including inappropriate emotional attachment)
outside of marriage. (Prov. 4:23; 5:1-23; 7:1-27)
No sexual looking (Gen. 9:22-24; Job 31:1-4; Mat. 5:27-29) or
touching (Deut. 25:11-12; Heb. 13:4) outside of marriage.
No entertaining ourselves with or joking around about sex outside
of marriage. (Eph. 5:3-12)

Common Practical Questions…
How far is too far between a single man and a single woman?
Three God-ordained categories…
The neighbor relationship: sexual activity prohibited.
(Lk. 10:25-37; 1 Cor. 7:7-9)
The family relationship: sexual activity prohibited.
(Lev. 18:6; 1 Tim. 5:1-2).
The marriage relationship: sexual activity commanded. (1 Cor. 7:1-5)
One God-glorifying conclusion…
Regardless of whether you are single or married, flee any and
all sexual activity outside of marriage. (1 Cor. 6:18-20; 1 Thess. 4:3-8)
What about masturbation? (Gal. 5:24; Rom. 13:14)
God designed sex to be relational; masturbation is lustful.
God designed sex to be covenantal; masturbation is non-committal.
God designed sex to be intimate; masturbation is superficial.
God designed sex to be fruitful; masturbation is fruitless.
God designed sex to be selfless; masturbation is self-centered.
God designed sex as a complex union; masturbation involves personal
isolation.
God designed sex as a complementary heterosexual act; masturbation is a
personal homosexual act.
How do I fight pornography?

Final Gospel Exhortations…
Repent of (and run from) any and all sexual activity outside of
marriage. (1 Cor. 6:18)
Rejoice in (and run to) sexual activity in marriage. (1 Cor. 7:1-5)
Receive today (and rest in) the forgiveness and freedom, hope and
healing that are found in Christ alone.

The Sweetness of the Gospel

Acts 17:23-31
23 For as I passed along and observed the objects of your worship, I found also an altar with this inscription, 'To the unknown god.' What therefore you worship as unknown, this I proclaim to you.
24 The God who made the world and everything in it, being Lord of heaven and earth, does not live in temples made by man,
25 nor is he served by human hands, as though he needed anything, since he himself gives to all mankind life and breath and everything.
26 And he made from one man every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the earth, having determined allotted periods and the boundaries of their dwelling place,
27 that they should seek God, and perhaps feel their way toward him and find him. Yet he is actually not far from each one of us,
28 for "'In him we live and move and have our being'; as even some of your own poets have said, "'For we are indeed his offspring.' 
29 Being then God's offspring, we ought not to think that the divine being is like gold or silver or stone, an image formed by the art and imagination of man.
30 The times of ignorance God overlooked, but now he commands all people everywhere to repent,
31 because he has fixed a day on which he will judge the world in righteousness by a man whom he has appointed; and of this he has given assurance to all by raising him from the dead."

If ever you need to present the gospel in a short span of time, Acts 17 is a perfect choice! It states who God is, that man is in need of repentance, that God has set a time limit on your life, that at the end of that life you will face judgement and that God raised Christ from the dead and appointed Him as righteous judge!